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Familytrippers – Our Story

Some of my most precious childhood memories were of our annual family road trips to different parts of Malaysia. I remember being in awe of mum’s Malaysian passport which had our photos in them, and the accompanying immigration cards.  By the time I was in secondary school, I would readily volunteer to fill them up for the family.

Our road trips almost always didn’t come with a fixed itinerary. Most of the time, dad would decide on the destination, and we will search for a suitable (and affordable) accommodation once there. We will also figure out our activities on the spot, there are usually some physical activities for us kiddos, mum gets to shop, and we each get to bring home a souvenir from our trips. At times, mum and dad would randomly decide to extend our holiday by a day or two, or decide to add in a stopover.

There’s something about being on holiday that brings a family closer together. It could be the shared experience of going on a banana boat ride or remembering who puked the most during a drive up the long, winding road to Cameron Highlands. It is the perfect opportunity for busy individuals to put aside school and work commitments, and spend quality time together.

It only made sense for me to marry a guy who loves to travel as much I do. And when we had children, there was never a doubt the kids were tagging along on our travels. I did contemplate going on a short trip without the kids one time, and his reply : “They are our children, who will they travel with if not us?”

Our boys took their first flight when they were 3 months old. Both times, I wanted to go on a trip before the end of my maternity leave. The first time round, we went to Gold Coast, Australia with my parents as we weren’t sure whether we could manage, us being new parents and all. Three years later, we headed to Perth on our own and took our first flight with two kids in tow.

Since then, there has been no turning back. Between our boys, they have taken over 50 flights altogether. I must say they are seasoned little traveller and they know what to expect each time we go on a holiday. These days, they will anticipate the days leading up to our travel. 5 year old Ari is old enough to have conversations with us on what we will be doing during our trip, and we will readily indulge him with the necessary information.

Once we are at the airport, the boys are familiar with the checking in process, going through immigration clearance, walking independently through the metal detectors, right up till luggage retrieval at the destination airport. Both boys will be eagerly looking out for our family luggages, pointing excitedly when they appear on the conveyor belt, and helping their dad to get them off the belt. Once we arrive at our destination, the boys look forward to our temporary abode and some of their room warming rituals involve jumping on the mattresses, swimming in the pool or bath tub if there is one and a family photo on the bed !

It’s been quite a journey, and we are excited to share our love for family travels with friends, family members and just about anyone else. That’s when the idea to create a community support page for family trippers and trippers-to-be was born. Through our blog and social media pages, we hope to share articles and tips for families to encourage them to travel with their young kids.

Moving forward, one of Familytrippers‘ dream is for the community to grow in size and be a dynamic one, with members sharing their stories and journeys with one another as well. Till that day comes, I will continue sharing my stories and experiences, and hopefully through these, more families will share our love and passion for family travel.

10 tips to survive baby’s first flight

Are you thinking of bringing your little one on his first plane ride? Worried that your baby might not be able to cope with a long flight? Read on for useful strategies on surviving baby’s first flight.

1. The younger, the better


Both our boys went on their first plane ride when they were almost 4 months old. Both times, I wanted to squeeze in a family trip before returning to work at the end of my maternity leaves. Both times, we decided to fly to Australia. Babies are the best travel companions because the only thing they do is to sleep, feed, pee and poo (in no specific order). Probably the most eventful memories on our flights were the episodes of hubby changing a poop-laden diaper in the tiny airplane toilet. We flew on a no-frills carrier hence I don’t recall being given an option for a bassinet. On hindsight, it would have been wiser to book a flight with bassinet as that would have made diaper changing a breeze.

2. Feed baby on take off and descend


Babies need to continuously suckle during take off and landing to reduce ear pain caused by the difference in air pressure. Remember how painful and annoying this could be? Time baby’s feed so that his suckles can help ease the pain. If you are still breastfeeding, that makes it even simpler as you have no bottles to sterilise, no hot water to request from the crew, no hungry squeals waiting for the temperature to be just right. Grab a nursing cover, position, latch. Definitely a perk to continue breastfeeding!

If your kid’s older, you can feed him biscuits or snacks to keep him chewing. Our boys get gummy treats and that keeps them happy and contented. Not recommended if your kids get too hyperactive with sugar overdose. You would want them to rest and preferably sleep for most part of the journey.

3. Delay nap time as much as possible


We usually try and keep our boys awake before the flight, just so they will be tired and fall asleep easily in the plane. Of course you need to know your kids very well as sleep deprivation can also lead to cranky babies.

If you are flying off at night, get your baby to take his naps earlier in the day and keep him awake till you have boarded the plane. This strategy works well for us so far. More often than not, our boys will be asleep for a good part of the flight. Now that they are bigger and get their own seats, they usually sleep through mealtimes as well. We’d rather them sleep than wake them up for their meals anyway.

4. Bag full of stuffs


Each time we fly, we will have a bag full of stuffs we might need in the plane. When the boys were younger, pacifier was an important source of comfort for them. Hence pacifiers (yes we usually bring a spare in case we lose one) were critical items. (By the way, pacifiers can help to reduce the pressures in the ears too!) We would also bring whatever toys our kids fancy, be it a ball, rattle, soft toys, teethers, etc.

When the kids were slightly bigger, we brought along story books, colouring materials, play doh, toy cars… anything the boys fancy playing. The trick is to take out one item at a time. Our boys have short attention span, hence we needed to ensure that our stash can last us throughout the flight! I learnt this from a friend, back when I was not married and I was travelling with her and her 2 year old toddler. She had a bag full of everything to occupy her son, it felt like she was performing magic tricks – “ta dah! Here’s a toy!” When we travelled on budget flights, we will also make sure we have one or two videos in our phones for emergency purposes, in case our bag of stuffs couldn’t appease them.

Now that #1 has his own mini luggage, we get him to pick and choose his own books and toys that he wants to bring along on the trip. And this mini luggage goes into the plane with us, and supplements our bag of stuff.

5. Arrive at the airport early


Be at the airport minimally 2 hours ahead of your flight. The earlier the better as this will give you ample time to settle yourselves and baby before a flight.

When overseas, you might want to reach the airport as early as 3 hours ahead of your flight, as you will need to orientate yourself in a foreign airport. Some airports are huge, and getting from one place to another could easily mean a 10 min walk (or 20 min with kids in tow). At some airports, there could be multiple bag checks and at others, the bag checks could be so thorough, it will take a while before you can clear the immigration and board your flight.

If your kid is slightly bigger, you might want to bring him to the viewing gallery and prep him for the flight. Our boys love watching the planes take off and land.

6. Infant travel perks

Some airlines provide preferential treatment to families travelling with an infant. We’ve been ushered into fast lanes, family queues and given boarding priority when we were travelling with our infant. We have had lesser of these perks once our boys upgraded to child seats.

Travelling with infant also means that you can get away with bringing in filled water bottles, hot water flasks and baby food. At least for us, we do.

It also helps that infant fares are a fraction of a child’s fare, another perk of travelling with your child before he turns 2.

7. Babywear and strollers


If you bring along a stroller, you have the option of pushing your stroller all the way to the flight gate or checking it in with the rest of your luggage. If you check in the stroller, you’ll most likely retrieve it at the baggage zone when you arrive at your destination airport. If you push the stroller with you to the gate, you might want to ask the crew where is the stroller retrieving point before you disembark from the plane. That’s because different airlines seem to have different arrangements. Most times, the stroller will be parked at the exit galleys  from the plane. But there were occasions when the stroller got sent to the baggage retrieval zone. At one of our trips, we totally forgot about our stroller and it ended up lost in transit. We had to wait over an hour for the stroller to be identified and transported to the airport terminal that we were in.

When the kids were younger, we usually travel with the carrier instead of the stroller just because it is much more convenient. Take note that you might be required to remove baby and the carrier at the baggage screening counter, which can be a hassle if baby is sleeping. But it has to be done. Also, some flight crew allow me to continue babywearing in the plane as long as the infant belt is safely strapped around baby’s waist. Some flight crew demand that baby be removed from the carrier at take off and landing. I used to angst over these demands, but I have learnt to accept that the crew is just doing their job and following their flight protocol. No point arguing over it, but on my end, I would make a mental note on the airlines I like and don’t like travelling with.

8. The Infant seat belt


If you are travelling with an infant, you’ll be given a seat belt that needs to be attached to yours. If it’s your first time on the flight with your baby, let the crew know and they will assist you to put it on. You can still cradle your baby, nurse, carry over your shoulder etc with the infant seat belt on him. So it is really not restrictive at all.

We have heard of families bringing along car seats on the plane and strapping their child on the car seat. We have never tried doing that. For us, the infant seat belt suffices. If you are bringing in a car seat, you will need to buy a child ticket so that your baby gets a seat of his own.

If you requested for a basinette, you need to remove baby from the basinette and strap him with the infant seat belt at take-off and landing, as well as during episodes of turbulence. So you might want to familiarise yourself with the belt so that you can buckle up with ease.

9. Appeasing the cranky baby


There was one flight we were on where the boys took turns to be cranky and made a fuss in the plane. It all started because they were over-tired after our plane (and their sleep) got delayed by 2 hours. It didn’t help that the crew insisted that I remove my carrier even though my 4 month old was fast asleep. In the midst of the transfer from carrier to arm, he woke up and cried his lungs out. It was our first time flying with 2 kids, and with hubby occupied with #1, I had to remain calm and try and appease my baby. The crew in this instance did nothing to help the situation. Baby calmed down only after I put him back in the carrier after take-off.

For obvious reasons, I’ve chosen not to fly with the airline anymore because of their inability to empathise and make concessions.

10. You know your baby best!

Whatever the situation is, remember that you are the best person to appease your own baby cos you know him best. We have had a number of unfriendly glares from fellow passengers in our flight upon seeing our young kids. We have heard of people who will ask to change seats because they don’t want to be seated next to a baby. We have had someone telling our son off for kicking his seat.

Rather, what keeps us travelling are the friendly and encouraging smiles from fellow parents who are also working hard to rein in their kids during flights. Then there are also the older parents who oft give us a reassuring “been there, done that” look. Our kids have received wonderful goodies and toys from air crew, chocolates and sweets from fellow passengers, there was a flight where me and another mum with a nursing baby shared breastfeeding tips and stories.

Don’t let the actions of others affect you. Remember, airplane rides are made accessible to everyone. You are not doing anything wrong by bringing your kids onboard flights. The key is to prepare yourself – physically, mentally and probably emotionally too – before your baby’s first flight. And you (and baby) will be just fine!

Have a safe flight and enjoy your holidays!

Umrah with young kids : Makkah Al Mukarramah

In our final (Part 3/3) post on our Umrah pilgrimage, we share on our experiences in Makkah and how we managed to fulfil our umrah obligations with our 2 young kids in tow.

“There is no city on earth through which Allah multiplies one good deed by a hundred thousand except Makkah.” (Sahih Bukhari , lbn Hibban)

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1. Preparations to enter Makkah

We departed from Madinah to Makkah on Sunday morning, all decked out in our umrah gears – Ihram for the men and appropriate prayer attire for the ladies. We did our sunnah prayer in our hotel before leaving and proceeded to recite our niyyat to perform umrah at Bir Ali Mosque, 9km from Madinah and 450km from Makkah. Throughout the ride to Makkah, we were encouraged to recite the Talbiah. Even though we had prepared ihram outfits for the boys, we did not put them on till we arrived at our hotel in Makkah. The boys needed to be as comfortable as possible for the long bus ride, plus we had to maintain our state of ihram throughout the journey to Makkah.

If you choose an itinerary with Makkah as the first destination instead of Madinah, you will need to perform your sunnah prayer at home and be in your umrah gears when you head to the airport. 45 minutes before arrival in Jeddah, you will then need to recite the niyyat for umrah. The journey from Jeddah airport to Makkah is about an hour long.

2. First umrah

We arrived at Makkah Hilton at about 9 pm, checked in and had a quick round of freshening up before performing our first umrah pilgrimage. This is when we also got the boys geared up in their Ihram. We had to change Dani’s diaper and made sure Ari went to the toilet first before we headed over to Masjidil Haram to ensure minimal disruption during umrah as well.

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Even though it was close to 11pm, the compounds of the Masjidil Haram was brightly lighted up and for a moment there, I was confused between night and day. There were many people going in and out of the mosque too and performing their umrah. I remember thinking to myself that this mosque never sleeps. On hindsight, when I compare with the other timings we did our umrah, this was probably the least packed timing. But it was still packed nevertheless.

We brought along our Tulas and strapped the boys in even before we entered the mosque. As we had to maintain our wudhu throughout the umrah pilgrimage, hubby and I agreed that all transfer of kids would be made through my parents. Thankfully we didn’t have to make any transfers though. Our group kept close together throughout tawaf and sa’i. By the 3rd tawaf, both boys were fast asleep in their Tulas, which also meant that they were heavier to carry. We had to perform our solat sunat Tawaf with the kids in tow, chairs were easily available to allow us to perform our solat. The 7 rounds of Sa’i felt more challenging than Tawaf, especially because of the slopes on either ends of Safa and Marwah. The boys slept all the way till we got back to the hotel. This was us after completing our first umrah.

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My parents, my mum especially, looked so tired here. This made me realise how difficult it must have been for our old folks to perform their Hajj. Tawaf and sa’i are just two components of Haj, and the Haj congregation is much larger than the umrah congregation.

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My little Haji so tired after a long day, successfully transferred onto the hotel bed for the night.

3. Subsequent umrahs

My parents opted out of the 2nd umrah and offered to take care of the kids. We took up their offer and followed the rest of the group to perform our umrah. Without having to carry Dani, it felt less tiring. We were able to keep pace with the group. My parents joined in the third umrah. This time round, we broke away from the group and chose to perform our umrah at our own pace. We tried letting Ari walk on his own but the crowd during Tawaf was too overwhelming for him and he asked to be carried. If your kids are older, you might want to consider pushing them on the wheelchairs instead, cos they too might be overwhelmed by the number of people and the pushing and shoving all around.

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4. Jemaah prayers in Masjidil Haram

Masjidil Haram is much much bigger than Nabawi Mosque, we managed to explore the mosque quite a bit and prayed at different sections within the mosque. Most of the time, we prayed at the main prayer hall at Level 2, from the nearest entrance to our hotel,  King Fahd gate.

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The mosque security closed off some of the entrances when the mosque became too packed (usually close to prayer times), hence it is very important to make sure you make your way down to the mosque early for prayers. We ended up praying at the mosque external compounds at least 2 times, and we stumbled upon the basement prayer section another time because that was the only entrance left open then. We quite liked the basement area as it was a small contained space and we prayed there a couple of times more. On our second last day in Makkah, we explored the rooftop praying area and performed our Maghrib and Isyak there. That was quite an experience in itself, scenic and very cooling.

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But of course, the best prayer spots were those that gave us a view of the Kaabah. Those times, it felt like a surreal experience facing the real Kaabah during prayers and not just the drawing on my prayer mat. These places were usually packed though, so again, I’d recommend that you be there early to book your spot. Not easy with kids too so you might want to moderate your expectations at the same time.

The families that we met in Makkah were as friendly, nice and generous as the ones we met in Madinah. Again, the boys made friends and received many goodies. Their rezeki, indeed.

Friday Jumaah prayers are really really packed. In Masjidil Haram, there’s a high chance roads are closed and entrances to the mosque are closed as early as 1.5 – 2 hours before prayer time. So you might want to be at the mosque very early.

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5. Subuh prayer

There were a number of Subuh prayers in Madinah and Makkah when we brought our sleeping boys along with us to the mosques. As parents, you know your kids best, and if they are not likely to wake up cranky and crying in the middle of prayers, why not. Ari tend to be in deep sleep and Dani will sleep soundly as long as he’s being carried. It might be useful to find out the techniques to do your prayers while sitting down. There are plenty of Waqaf stools in different areas within the mosque compound for you to use during prayers.

6. Kids Club @ Hilton Makkah

Hilton Makkah has a Kids Club, and we let the boys play at the club twice during our stay. The first time, we dropped them for an hour. The second time, we dropped them a bit longer and picked them up after Zuhur prayers. If you are staying at Hilton Makkah, you might want to consider this option if you intend to spend a slightly longer time in the mosque. The kids get to play, and you get some time to do your own stuff. Even though Dani was too young to be left behind, the staff allowed us to do so because Ari would be with him.

7. Shopping at Makkah…

Our hotel was just next to the shopping mall and we spent quite a bit of time window shopping. There are plenty of food options too, hence you might want to consider opting for a half board package. Even though we had lunch and dinner provided, we skipped our meals a couple of times just so we get to eat other types of food. Hilton Makkah’s breakfast spread was awesome though!

8. Climbing Jabar Nur

Again, this was possible because my parents stayed back to take care of the boys. Initially the umrah group was keen to go for the climb, but when one by one they pulled out, hubby and I decided to go ahead. We took a cab to and fro and walked up the 1,100 stairs to the top of the Jabal Nur. We managed to take a peek at the Hira Cave where Prophet Muhammad received his first revelation from Allah SWT.

“Read in the name of your Lord who created man from a clot.  Read: for your Lord is Most Bountiful, who teaches by the pen, teaches man that which he knew not.” (Quran 96:1-5)

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9. And then the kids got sick…

When we left Singapore for our umrah trip, Ari was down with fever. Throughout the whole journey to Madinah, he was very weak. Hubby was closely monitoring his temperature and gave him his medication every couple of hours. In Madinah, we were encouraged by our guide to feed Ari plenty of zamzam water. We did that. Each time we went to the mosque to pray, we will bring our water bottles and fill them up with zamzam water. Alhamdulillah, Ari’s fever subsided by Day 3.

In Makkah, Dani started running a temperature two days before we were supposed to depart for Singapore. Thankfully he still nursed, ate and drank well despite being sick. Hubby was back on duty monitoring his temperature (hubby recalled Dani’s temperature at one point was close to 40degrees!) and fed him medicine every couple of hours together with zamzam water. We were thankful Dani was not cranky during the whole episode. He had almost recovered by the time we headed back to Singapore. Alhamdulillah.

Shahidah Travels has a clinic in Makkah and Madinah for their pilgrims but thankfully, we had sufficient medication and didn’t need to go to the clinics.

In fact, filling up zamzam water became a routine that Ari looked forward to each time we enter the mosque. Here is he helping his dad refill our bottles at the basement prayer space.

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10. The Farewell Tawaf

On our last morning in Makkah, we were up early for our final tawaf, Tawaf Wada at 3am. We weren’t the only ones up at that hour, the place was packed. It was a sad poignant moment for us, having to leave the holy city of Makkah and not having the privilege to pray in front of the Kaabah. I still remember those few final moments in Masjidil Haram, as we sat and prayed continuously while waiting for the prayer call for Subuh. Dani slept throughout and I did my Subuh prayer with him still asleep in the carrier.

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The time we left Masjidil Haram, back to our hotel to pack our belongings for the flight back home.

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11. Flight back and zamzam entitlement

All pilgrims are entitled to a pre-packed 5 litre bottle of zamzam water before you depart. So don’t worry about stocking up on zamzam. You won’t be allowed to carry your own bottles of zamzam in your checked in baggage or hand carry anyway and they will check your bags for those. Kids get a bottle too, so altogether we got to bring home 6 bottles of zamzam water . Alhamdulillah.

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This was us with all of our loot before check-in at Jeddah airport.

Two tired kids, two rejuvenated parents. Bringing your kids along for umrah may sound like no easy feat, but with enough preparation and lots of doa and tawakkal, it was manageable and we would not have wanted it any other way.

Click here to read on our Umrah preparations and here to read our experience in Madinah.

 

 

 

 

Umrah with Young Kids

Part 1 – Have niyyat, just do it.

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Alhamdulillah, a year ago, our family performed our Umrah (mini pilgrimage) to Makkah and Madinah. Like most other families who brought their young children along on their Umrah/Haj trips, we were anxious and didn’t know what to expect. Yet we knew that there was no way we would leave the kids behind, we had to figure out how we could make this trip happen. Here are some things that we did in preparation for umrah with our young kids.

1. Research, research, research…

We started planning for our trip a year in advance. We researched on travel agencies and their packages, explored who could be our fellow companions, kept track of our finances and spoke to everybody we know who have recently performed Haj and Umrah to hear their experiences. The people we spoke to have been nothing short but supportive of our niyyat to perform Umrah with our kids. We were told that there are plenty of families with young kids in Makkah and Madinah and that it was a common sight to see kids in the mosques. We were assured that it was a right decision to bring our kids, and that we should go along with it.

2. Umrah companions matter…

We didn’t want to travel during the peak year-end period, as such there were lesser providers and packages for us to choose from.  We decided to book a package with Shahidah Travel as we heard good reviews from friends and family. Our group leader with Shahidah Travel, Kak Mus, was very supportive throughout. Right from our first phone conversation with her, she assured us that all would be fine and that we should not worry about whether we would be able to manage. She reminded us to keep praying to Allah SWT and believe in His plans for us.
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We also invited my mum and dad to perform umrah with us as we felt that we could do with the additional help to take care of the boys. That was probably the best decision we made, because having my mum by my side performing our prayers and umrah was not only comforting for the boys, it was comforting for me too. I could not have asked for better companions for my first Umrah pilgrimage, if not my own family.

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3. Preparing the kids…

We started talking to our firstborn, Ari, on what Umrah is all about. His brother was too young then, so we paid more attention to Ari and described to him the places that we would be visiting. We also brought the kids along to the Umrah preparation courses organized by Shahidah Travel and started bringing them along to the mosques at prayer times.

We watched videos of the Umrah pilgrimage in Makkah. Ari attended religious classes at Little Muslim Readers then and there was a session where his Ustazah got the class to make a paper Kaabah. We often made reference to the paper Kaabah in our conversations.

For our final pre-umrah course, Shahidah Travel erected a makeshift Kaabah for the Jemaah to “rehearse” the Umrah rituals of Tawaf and Sa’i. We carried the boys exactly like how we were planning to perform our Umrah in Makkah. Personally, we found this session very useful as it gave us a glimpse on what to expect in Makkah.

4. Preparing self…

As it was our first Umrah pilgrimage, both hubby and I were equally clueless on the rituals and what to expect in Makkah and Madinah. The preparations we did with Ari were equally useful for us as well. We also started attending regular religious classes to strengthen our knowledge and understanding of the Deen, two of which were Beginners Class in Islam by Ustaz Zhulkeflee Ismail and Understanding Recitations in Solat by AtTartil.

Shahidah Travel held 3 pre-umrah sessions which we found very useful. You might want to attend all the pre-umrah classes that your agency organised for you. If you have a longer lead time, we would suggest that you attend a more intensive umrah preparation course to better prepare yourself for the actual pilgrimage. That was something which we felt that we could have done better so that we could be more knowledgeable and done more spiritual obligations, supplications and prayers while we were in Makkah and Madinah. Even if you do not have time for this, the umrah booklet that the travel agency provides usually contain a lot of useful information on the types of supplications and prayers that you can carry out. You might want to go through the materials beforehand and make mental notes on those that you intend to carry out in Makkah and Madinah.

5. Trip packing…

Our packing list for umrah was longer than our usual trips. One reason was because we would be spending the bulk of our day in the mosque for prayers and rituals. We needed to have sufficient and varied snacks, books, toys and activities to entertain the boys in the mosques at prayer times and these easily took up one whole cabin bag.

The clothes that we packed for umrah were also slightly bulkier than our usual travel outfits. I wore jubahs mostly, and we each had multiple sets of prayer garb. The white cloth for the men (Ihram) were bulky and easily took up half a luggage space. We received an addtional set of Ihram for the boys which I then modified into two kid-size sets.

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It didn’t help that we only had one huge luggage, two would have been useful as it would mean we could cut down on the number of bags that we had to manage. This is us with all our bags waiting to check in at Jeddah airport for our return flight to Singapore.

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One very useful item that we packed at the advise of some friends were what we referred to as our mosque shoe bags! Will share more on this in our next post, but basically do bring along a bag that you can keep your shoes in when you enter the mosque. Plastic bag works too, my mum and dad used those. Hubby and I brought along a sling bag like in the photo below, as we found it to be useful, compact and yet you can sling it on you.

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6. Invest in a good carrier!

No prizes for guessing which carrier we brought with us on this trip. Yup, our trusted Tulas! Strollers aren’t very useful because you can’t bring them into the mosque. An alternative you can consider is to rent a wheelchair and you can then push your kids during Tawaf and Sai’e. My understanding is that the wheelchair rentals aren’t cheap especially if you need someone to help you to push. It’s not easy to manoeuvre the wheelchair amongst the sea of people performing their Umrah either. We tried letting 4-year old Ari walk next to us one time (we brought along  a kid harness), but he got overwhelmed by the people around him and asked to be carried.

If you are thinking of buying a carrier, do pick one that provides good support. Umrah itself is physically challenging, especially during Sai’e as there are slopes at either ends and depending on which level you perform your umrah, they can be pretty steep. If your kids aren’t used to baby wearing, you might want to familiarise them with the carrier and carry them for a bit prior to your trip.

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7. Others

You will need to submit 4 photos for your Visa application. There’s a standard size for Visa photos (4x6cm) and some requirements like white backdrop and dark coloured hijab so do check with your travel agency. Shahidah provided a list of recommended photo shops, as follows:

  1. GRAPHIS ONE 7
    390 Victoria Street, Golden Landmark, #02-44. Tel : 62951517
  2. TPS PHOTO
    Blk 201C, Tampines Street 21 #01-10. Tel : 67829255
  3. T & L PHOTO SERVICE
    Blk 248 Simei Street 3 #01-26. Tel : 67822195
  4. JIA YI WATCH & PHOTO
    Blk 253 Jurong East Street 24, #01-221. Tel : 65633918
  5. MARINE HAWAII PHOTO STUDIO
    58 Marine Terrace Tel : 6242 139

There are also two jabs that you will need to go for, influenza and meningitis. Again, Shahidah provided a list of clinics that you can go to get these jabs. We went to our usual family doctor, Dr Suraidah from Medina Clinic. There was a slightly different arrangement for one of the jabs for Dani as he was only 15mth old then. Instead of taking the jab in one dosage, he was given the jab in 2 smaller dosages, one before and one after the trip.

We also took the opportunity to get prescribed medication for the boys like paracetamol and brufen which we brought along with us. Good thing we did because the boys took turns to fall sick during our trip. More on that in our next post.

As I only started donning the hijab at the start of last year, my passport photograph was not the most updated photo of me. I was worried that this might pose a problem at immigration and I checked in with the travel agency on whether I would need to renew my passport. According to them, it wasn’t necessary and that the photo in my Visa was the critical one.

Cost-wise, we took up the full-board package with Shahidah Travel. It would probably be sufficient to go for their half-board package instead as it was easy to get food in Makkah. (Shahidah’s half-board package is inclusive of lunch and dinner in Madinah.) We paid child price for Ari, and we only had to pay for Dani’s airfare which worked out to be barely $500 on SQ. We were among the last few groups to board the SQ-Jeddah flight on SQ, which have since been removed from SQ flight routes.

In our next post, we will share our experiences in Madinah and Makkah and include more useful tips for families intending to bring your young kids along for Umrah pilgrimage.

Keeping safe when Travelling 

How do you keep yourself, your family and your valuables safe when you’re travelling? After our London misadventure, we posed this question to our friends in Facebook, and here are some of the best replies we received. Useful tips for fellow family trippers heading to Europe this holiday!

Huda:

I keep my money everywhere. even in my shoes 😂

Tan-Ly Jennifer:

In Italy (Rome) where its famous for pickpockets, money is kept in bra, shoes. Always split the cash. And I tie my wallet to my bag. I do not bring out my wallet when paying anything. Don’t attract attention.

And if we are lost, we keep moving and do not stand at 1 place for more than a few seconds pple will know u are a tourist and is lost. I am a kiasu Singaporean traveller! Lots more precaution that I take actually. Have to publish a book probably. 😂

Lynn:

Buy travel insurance or use a credit card that offers some travel insurance coverage.

Razean:

I don’t bring all the cash with me. I will budget per day and will also bring with me the total no of $ set aside for the country, eg 3 days in London in a Ziplock bag. My lil wallet (where the daily Budget is in) will be kept in the inner pocket of the jacket or anyway I think will be safe. The rest of the money will be kept in my document file and lock in the luggage.

Most importantly, just be mindful of the surroundings. If I feel someone of a close proximity, I will be more alert. If u r using a backpack, locking the zips help too..

Nazlin:

Use a money belt and put it under your top. Put a little cash in a wallet that u can easily have access to ( but to avoid being pickpocketed, consider using a big diaper pin to pin the opening of your pocket. Got this trick from an online site. This was used by a cameraman whenever he needs to shoot in crowded places). Why you still need some money in a wallet is in case if you get robbed, you have something to surrender to them, otherwise they may get suspicious that you have no money at all. According to a restaurant owner in Paris, these pickpockets like to target those with kids as our attention seems to be more on our kids.

When taking trains from one city/country to another, bring a bicycle chain and lock and lock your luggages to the metal rail at the luggage corner. We know of someone who got her luggage stolen (since we tend to seat far from the luggages ) when the train stopped along the way. 😁

Fistri:

I try my best not to put my wallet in a backpack, it’s always in bag in front of me and yes I don’t bring all my money out. Budget per day and bring a credit card. Once I lost my wallet in HK I was still able to survive coz the rest of my money is in my suitcase’s inner pocket (yup that zipped area tt lines the bottom of the bag).

Nurfadhilah:

Don’t dump all your cash in your wallet. Keep some in your luggage, your backpack pockets (inside)… 🙂

Teguh:

Separate your cash and cards every day/stage/everywhere you go and somehow be prepared to lose; even the best countries can host the worst people.

Farah:

Welcome to our world of Scottevest! Go check if out 😉

Rasheda:

My two cents contribution. Split it with your traveling partner. We then separate it on ourselves (pocket/pouch/bag etc). Only keeping an estimate of what I think I need for the day accessible.

Another suggestion a friend made, carry a bag with multiple pockets. Place your valuable in the most inner pocket which is closest to your body. (her bag was cut open at the side without her realising till much later. It got their the first layer. Nothing valuable enough to be taken)

Louis:

When the kids were younger, I put some of the money in their bags. Pickpockets go for the adults not the kids (whom they assumed won’t be carrying cash). But things have changed. Be cautious in obvious places where lots of tourists gather for there will always be thieves amongst the crowds.

Eiffel Tower, Trevi Fountain, Westminster Bridge, Brandenburg Gate, Merlion. Easy to spot the tourists among the crowd. Harder to spot the pickpockets.

Always separate the cash and cards. A friend ‘lost’ his wallet in Europe which was returned later. Credit card doesn’t involve stolen cards but stolen information. Separate the cards and use bank cards with 2FA.

Amalina:

Need to be vigilant everywhere. Especially when a group tries to enter the metro behind u. Hafiz was pickpocketed by the gypsies in the Paris metro. He did not lock his packsafe coz we became complacent. Luckilyy we found out in time.

Lesson 1: Use the locks on our bags.

Lesson 2: Split money and keep most on our body bag.

Lesson 3: Men, don’t keep retreating when a lady pushes u. She might be trying to steal ur wallet.

Someone also stole our luggage on the train between Milan to Rome.

Lesson 4: Chain luggage to the rack.

We had to learn things the hard way.

Alicia:

I used to keep everything in a pouch in front of me, but I’ve been getting very careless after going with husband and having kids. Then we kinda just stuff here there and everywhere.

Raaha:

As students in London, my husband and I relied on our bank cards rather than cash – easier to cancel if anything happens. As a tourist this time around, my husband carried one of those money bags that goes around your waist under your shirt, and I carried a bag that I held close to me and that had an inner zip – anything valuable like phone and money goes in there. As a student, I once carelessly chucked my phone into my coat pocket (cos I was complacent), and got pickpocketed by a guy who “bumped” into me in Bayswater 🙁

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